Winning Chances to be Loved

Have you been loved? Yes, you have been loved. We cannot deny, that our parents were the very first to love us. How about towards someone other than your parents? Yes, No, Maybe? As we grow older we wanted to love other person not related to us and we wanted to win that same love back. Other people would say that they have won love and they are happy with it. Others say that it is not easy to love. While others wanted to keep out of love and just love themselves. I don’t know how we are going to call them. Are they selfish? Are they nervous enough to share what they felt (oh…I belong somewhere here)? Or they might feel anxious that they might be rejected after telling the other guy what they really feel (sorry, much more here, LOL).

A famous quotation goes;” it is better to have loved and lost than never loved at all,” then we should at least try to show our love to someone in the hope to win that love back. Back when I was young if woman wanted to love me then she must accept me as I am. That line seems very masochistic and I grow older and I found out that my tastes are no longer that taste of the gals that I like. I tend to be very rude and ridiculous. I am left behind. I am no longer the apple of everyone’s eyes. I started to have the feeling of being alone and being rejected. No one wanted to have a rude and ridiculous person like me who even got a lot of air.

In my life I made few changes. Changes that once I will be given a chance to be loved by someone whom I love that most these are the things that I have to do:
1.) Change my style. I will be more caring this time. I wanted to show that I am the best man that should be loved. I may not be as handsome, rich and powerful as with the other guys but I will make sure that I am someone whom she can trust. I will always be loyal to her as I will love no other woman than her.
2.) I will add thrift. Since I am thinking of a long-time, even a lifetime relationship then I will be saving money for our future. I will make sure that all the expenses that I made are done in good faith. None of the expenses must go to gambling and hard drinks.
3.) Add faith. I will ask the assistance of God that He will bless our relationship. We will go to church together to ask for His blessings.
4.) Sacrifice. If needed I will sacrifice my time and my own wants just to see our relationship growing. If needed that I will sacrifice my entire life just to have her then I will do that.

Winning Chances

One morning, I had a chat with my sister. She told me that life is a matter of choice. That means in order to succeed in life you must make the right choice in every option that you have. Yeah, I believe that she was right. When you made a choice and its the wrong one then it could even mean the end of the world. But I put a big BUT in it. Why?


Why? I believe that life is more of chances. Chance for us to have that option in life. Yeah, the kids down the road, the beggars, the robbers and every other lawless person. What do you think their options are? Their options are to make a living or die that may synonymous to to steal, to kill or to die. Get my point? I mean that you should be given that chance to choose first before you can choose that option. How can you opt to be a student when you don't have financial support? How can you opt to ride a car when you don't own one or don't have money for the fare? See... life is more of chances and then we will make the right choice out of that change.